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Lessons on Stagnation in Recovery
When our lives start to improve, and we no longer face major consequences from the disease, we may become complacent. My sponsor once...
Mar 15, 20242 min read


Narrowing Thought - Wide Awareness
Thinking mind has the capacity to look at a 10,000 piece jigsaw puzzle, lift out a single piece, and say this is the entirety of the...
Mar 6, 20242 min read


Chūdō: A Middle Way of Being
As a child, my gaze and attention were always pointed toward the ground, absorbed in the immediacy of my surroundings. The world at my...
Mar 5, 20241 min read


Relationship Awareness - Values and Boundaries - and Being Healthy
In our practice and process of growing toward self-awareness and healing, it's vital to recognize not just the external values, AKA...
Feb 29, 20242 min read


Forgiveness Could Be Understood As A Process Not An Event
Forgiveness is not a yes or no, black or white, forgive and forget proposition. It's not a goal to be achieved. It's not a location or...
Feb 26, 20242 min read


Another Ideal Bites the Dust
When someone, as a result of the reality of their body, moves to using a chair in the Zendo to do Zazen, the mind's attachments and...
Feb 25, 20241 min read


Grief: A Barrier to Personal Growth
In my own practice of Zen and recovery from addiction, and an awkward childhood surrounded by people who weren't very transformationally...
Feb 21, 20242 min read


Kaizen and the Continuous Unfolding of Well-being
Kaizen (改善) reflects a commitment to continuous improvement, a mindful approach to life that invites and supports growth and...
Feb 17, 20242 min read


This One Time - This One Meeting
We can't step on the same piece of water twice. No two moments, as similar as they may seem, are ever the same. This fact is a basic...
Feb 11, 20243 min read


Please Do Not Accept the Ride
Sometimes, Zen awakening is the act of not boarding every negative bus that stops in our path, asking us to get on and go for a ride. The...
Feb 10, 20241 min read


Authentic Vulnerability in Relationships
If we're interested in transformational relationships, instead of settling for transactional, authentic vulnerability is an essential...
Jan 27, 20242 min read


Self, seeming to be divided against itself, can be a crappy meal super-sized
How many times have we gotten into an argument... WITH OURSELVES? Who is it that we've argued with? Was it authentic Us or an aspect... a...
Jan 24, 20242 min read


Arguing with Mind's Shadows: Resolving The Inner Conflict of Addiction
Addiction is like any other virus or parasite... it confuses the host into fighting its symptoms rather than dealing with what's actually...
Jan 19, 20242 min read


Keeping Our Head Cold and Feet Warm
KEEPING OUR HEAD COLD AND FEET WARM Zen Master Nyogen Senzaki, in his final words to students, was, "Friends in Dharma, be satisfied with...
Jan 4, 20243 min read


Letting Go of Our Cherished Opinions
We all have our views and perspectives that we hold dear. In the practice of zazen meditation, we’re invited to sit without clinging...
Jan 3, 20242 min read


Not Giving Shelter to Fear
What is the nature of Zen practice? Not giving shelter to the fears within the mind. The heart of "Give no fear" is at the core of Zen...
Dec 30, 20232 min read


THE UNSEEN IMPACT OF HABIT ON RELATIONSHIP DYNAMICS
Our habits are often stronger and more influential than we realize. Acting from habit and routine is a subtle defense mechanism employed...
Dec 28, 20232 min read


Recovery Tip of the Day | Self-Care and Self-Love to the People!
In my personal recovery, I gradually realized that I needed to accept the responsibility of loving myself, instead of expecting others to...
Dec 26, 20233 min read


Zeroness and Zen
Our natural trait before, during, and after emerging from the womb is Buddha nature. We are beyond measurement, calculation, and...
Dec 24, 20232 min read


Healing Tip of the Day: Steal Your Own True Face
'Ego is the thief of joy.' This isn't a new realization for most of us. In fact it's a point of confusion, because oddly no matter what...
Dec 21, 20232 min read
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