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ROBES OF PERCEPTION
There was an occasion when I was invited to give a teaching at a Buddhist temple, focused on the topic of 'inclusion versus exclusion.'...
Sep 11, 20242 min read


Feeling My Feelings… or Were They Really Mind’s Thoughts? Inquiring Attention Want’s to Know!
There was a time when my attention would lock onto and agree with the thought, “I need to feel my feelings.” As my meditation practice...
Aug 28, 20242 min read


Step 8: Mending, Amending, and Willingness | One Addicts Experience
In my continuous process of uncovering and healing from the toxic relationship with addiction mind... negativity mind, Step 8 invites...
Aug 9, 20242 min read


What I've Learned About Relationships: Auditioning vs. Authenticity
One of the greatest challenges I've noticed in relationships is that many people enter them with an "audition" mentality. They approach...
Aug 6, 20242 min read


Zen Is Not About Training Mind
Using the mind to control or manage mind itself is a commitment to being caught in an endless loop of suffering. It's like attempting to...
Jul 18, 20241 min read


Controlling the Uncontrollable
What happens to us when we try to control the uncontrollable? Suffering is usually the only thing on the menu of experience, at that...
Jul 1, 20241 min read


Patience as an aspect of The Way
Nin (忍)... Patience... can invite and encourage our vision to widen... to relax... to open rather than contract... physically, mentally,...
Jun 27, 20242 min read


Reality as Reality
In the four-fold posture of Zazen, observe and witness thinking as thinking, the imaginary as imaginary, the storyline as storyline....
Jun 11, 20241 min read


The Pivot of Zazen: Authentic Confession to Endless Reality
Zazen practice doesn't give us anything that we already aren't. It helps us to notice 360° Universal Loving Presence as our True Nature....
May 21, 20242 min read


The Construct of You
The so-called "You" is a concept the mind creates and aims its thoughts at, to gain a reflection of itself. This is despite the fact that...
May 20, 20241 min read


Dropping Our Attention To Thoughts So That We Can Hear Our Authentic Experience
Once, a university professor visited a well-respected Zen Master to learn about Zen. The Master invited him to sit for a cup of tea. The...
May 7, 20242 min read


Zazen is Not Being Fooled by the Eyes
A horizon is only a horizon because of how we're looking at things, based on the idea of separation... a beginning, middle, and end. When...
Apr 23, 20241 min read


Changing Our Relationship With Suffering
The essence of Buddhism lies in awakening to our Original Nature, which is inherently free from suffering. Even though pain is an...
Apr 14, 20244 min read


Reflections on Emotional Paralysis and Getting Unstuck
In my personal experience, learned emotional paralysis, a condition rooted in societal malconditioning and unhealthy attachment styles,...
Apr 6, 20246 min read


Barking Mind
Mind makes barking noises, like a big and vicious dog, with glistening white teeth snapping at us, and we, easily manipulated, falsely...
Apr 5, 20241 min read


The Doubts
What could happen for us, if we took a day off from giving our time and attention to the minds tendency toward doubt that's usually a...
Apr 2, 20242 min read


Lessons on Stagnation in Recovery
When our lives start to improve, and we no longer face major consequences from the disease, we may become complacent. My sponsor once...
Mar 15, 20242 min read


Narrowing Thought - Wide Awareness
Thinking mind has the capacity to look at a 10,000 piece jigsaw puzzle, lift out a single piece, and say this is the entirety of the...
Mar 6, 20242 min read


Chūdō: A Middle Way of Being
As a child, my gaze and attention were always pointed toward the ground, absorbed in the immediacy of my surroundings. The world at my...
Mar 5, 20241 min read


Relationship Awareness - Values and Boundaries - and Being Healthy
In our practice and process of growing toward self-awareness and healing, it's vital to recognize not just the external values, AKA...
Feb 29, 20242 min read
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