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Zen Is Not About Training Mind
Using the mind to control or manage mind itself is a commitment to being caught in an endless loop of suffering. It's like attempting to...
Jul 18, 20241 min read


Controlling the Uncontrollable
What happens to us when we try to control the uncontrollable? Suffering is usually the only thing on the menu of experience, at that...
Jul 1, 20241 min read


Patience as an aspect of The Way
Nin (忍)... Patience... can invite and encourage our vision to widen... to relax... to open rather than contract... physically, mentally,...
Jun 27, 20242 min read


Reality as Reality
In the four-fold posture of Zazen, observe and witness thinking as thinking, the imaginary as imaginary, the storyline as storyline....
Jun 11, 20241 min read


The Pivot of Zazen: Authentic Confession to Endless Reality
Zazen practice doesn't give us anything that we already aren't. It helps us to notice 360° Universal Loving Presence as our True Nature....
May 21, 20242 min read


The Construct of You
The so-called "You" is a concept the mind creates and aims its thoughts at, to gain a reflection of itself. This is despite the fact that...
May 20, 20241 min read


Dropping Our Attention To Thoughts So That We Can Hear Our Authentic Experience
Once, a university professor visited a well-respected Zen Master to learn about Zen. The Master invited him to sit for a cup of tea. The...
May 7, 20242 min read


Zazen is Not Being Fooled by the Eyes
A horizon is only a horizon because of how we're looking at things, based on the idea of separation... a beginning, middle, and end. When...
Apr 23, 20241 min read


Changing Our Relationship With Suffering
The essence of Buddhism lies in awakening to our Original Nature, which is inherently free from suffering. Even though pain is an...
Apr 14, 20244 min read


Reflections on Emotional Paralysis and Getting Unstuck
In my personal experience, learned emotional paralysis, a condition rooted in societal malconditioning and unhealthy attachment styles,...
Apr 6, 20246 min read


Barking Mind
Mind makes barking noises, like a big and vicious dog, with glistening white teeth snapping at us, and we, easily manipulated, falsely...
Apr 5, 20241 min read


The Doubts
What could happen for us, if we took a day off from giving our time and attention to the minds tendency toward doubt that's usually a...
Apr 2, 20242 min read


Lessons on Stagnation in Recovery
When our lives start to improve, and we no longer face major consequences from the disease, we may become complacent. My sponsor once...
Mar 15, 20242 min read


Narrowing Thought - Wide Awareness
Thinking mind has the capacity to look at a 10,000 piece jigsaw puzzle, lift out a single piece, and say this is the entirety of the...
Mar 6, 20242 min read


Chūdō: A Middle Way of Being
As a child, my gaze and attention were always pointed toward the ground, absorbed in the immediacy of my surroundings. The world at my...
Mar 5, 20241 min read


Relationship Awareness - Values and Boundaries - and Being Healthy
In our practice and process of growing toward self-awareness and healing, it's vital to recognize not just the external values, AKA...
Feb 29, 20242 min read


Forgiveness Could Be Understood As A Process Not An Event
Forgiveness is not a yes or no, black or white, forgive and forget proposition. It's not a goal to be achieved. It's not a location or...
Feb 26, 20242 min read


Another Ideal Bites the Dust
When someone, as a result of the reality of their body, moves to using a chair in the Zendo to do Zazen, the mind's attachments and...
Feb 25, 20241 min read


Grief: A Barrier to Personal Growth
In my own practice of Zen and recovery from addiction, and an awkward childhood surrounded by people who weren't very transformationally...
Feb 21, 20242 min read


Kaizen and the Continuous Unfolding of Well-being
Kaizen (改善) reflects a commitment to continuous improvement, a mindful approach to life that invites and supports growth and...
Feb 17, 20242 min read
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