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Mentor Garden Zendo | Donation Box
Dear Friends and Supporters, I am currently seeking donations for three primary initiatives on behalf of Mentor Garden Zendo. The first...
Jul 14, 20231 min read
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Attention as a Super Power
Whatever we direct our attention to is what's not only closest but also most intimate to us...for better or worse. Attention is a true...
Jul 13, 20232 min read
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Intuition and Trust
I frequently pose this question to those who practice with me: "When was the last time you had a thought that wasn't accurate or was...
Jul 10, 20232 min read
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Zazen
Zazen is the practice of fostering a one-pointed, undivided, and stabilized presence and attention. It promotes alertness and readiness...
Jul 6, 20231 min read
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Unhooking Awareness From Skin, Muscle, and Bone
Last Saturday, after morning zazen at Choboji on Beacon Hill, I trekked over to Clear Mountain Monastery to join some friends in...
Jul 5, 20232 min read
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QandA About Controlling Thoughts
Questioner: Why can't I control or penetrate my thoughts? Seiho: First, they're not your thoughts. If they were, you could control them....
Jul 2, 20231 min read
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Untangling the Knots of Not Trusting Ourselves
Buddhism distinguishes itself from Western religions through its unique approach to human nature. While Abrahamic religions, namely...
Jun 30, 20233 min read
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Standing in Eternal Intersection of Making Choices - How Is It For You
In living our life, to what we sense as the best of our current ability, whether we ask for it or not, we constantly find ourselves...
Jun 28, 20233 min read
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Eliminating Negativity
In a book, called "Points of Departure, Zen Buddhism with a Rinzai View," my first teacher wrote an essay entitled, "Eliminate the...
Jun 27, 20232 min read
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Karma The Unseen Offspring of Our Actions
Yesterday, I found myself engaged in an insightful dialogue with a protégé of mine. As mentors often do, we were navigating the twists...
Jun 26, 20232 min read
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Dance of Buddha Nature is Beyond Thought
In the profound words of the late Sylvia Plath, "If I didn’t think, I’d be much happier." From a surface glance, these words may hint at...
Jun 24, 20232 min read
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Untangling Our Unhappy Relationship With Unhealthy Beliefs
What we believe, we tend to live. As my mentors taught me in Twelve Step Recovery-Land, the word "belief" refers to an idea or attitude...
Jun 23, 20232 min read
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Action is the Spokesperson of our Beliefs
If you want to understand what I truly believe, pay 20% attention to what I say, and 80% to what I'm actually doing in my life. That will...
Jun 22, 20231 min read
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Vulnerability is the Birthplace of Intimacy and Healthy Relatedness
In my experience, if we're not willing to get vulnerable with people that we're in a relationship with, then we're probably not seriously...
Jun 21, 20233 min read
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BEING WITHOUT THE LENS OF THOUGHT
The core of Buddhist practice guides us toward noticing authentic reality, using the ego's great doubt and deep insecurity to fire an...
Jun 20, 20233 min read
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Why Capitalism Violates Our Evolutionary and Biological Imperatives for the Survival of Our Species
Throughout thousands of years of evolution and development, it's our communal teamwork across all facets of society that has enabled us...
Jun 19, 20233 min read
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Happy Father's Day? Really?
Though Father's Day is a day our society invites us to celebrate the nature of fatherhood. For me it's a day of mourning. It's a day of...
Jun 18, 20233 min read
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Without Distraction Mind
If an absence of thinking - not allowing attention and awareness to be distracted by thoughts that come and go on their own - results in...
Jun 14, 20231 min read
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Intentionality In Recovery | Choosing Discovery Over Default
An old friend often said, "It's heartbreaking when addiction masquerades as recovery. When I'm coasting in recovery, not truly connected,...
Jun 13, 20233 min read
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SUMMER OF ZEN: EMBRACING AUTHENTICITY RATHER THAN PERFORMING
What is the essence of Zen? Not performing. Being 100% natural. Zen, at its core, is a practice that invites us to be, not perform. It is...
Jun 12, 20233 min read
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