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Gift rather than withhold... compassion, positive action, respect, and empathy.
Just for today... Gift rather than withhold... compassion, positive action, respect, and empathy. Many times I've heard our oldest living...
Jan 30, 20231 min read
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Wallflowers Don't Make It Here
One addict's ongoing lesson of showing up for our life as an active participant rather than a random spectator. --Dignity and Grace
Jan 26, 20231 min read
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Hōshin | Peace of Heart and Mind
We have to separate ourselves from our ego filter and the idea of self on which we are stuck. It is true that there is also the small “i”...
Jan 25, 20232 min read
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The Relationship of Zen and our Intuitive Nature
From the Zen perspective, thinking and text messaging are very similar. While it's okay to get around the basic terrain of reality, it's...
Jan 24, 20232 min read
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Failure and Errors
Before I began my Zen training, I had no idea that failure could be my greatest and most caring teacher and mentor... because it helped...
Jan 23, 20231 min read
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What Is My Mental and Emotional Health Status with Serenity
JFT... if I'm cranky... moody... contentious... caught in power struggles… sarcastic... mean... devaluing myself or others... growling...
Jan 23, 20231 min read
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Being Reachable and Teachable
In order to be teachable in my healing process connected to the disease of addiction, I need to be reachable; and be prepared to travel...
Jan 22, 20231 min read
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The Way of Zen is to Fail Better and Prevail
Samuel Beckett once wrote... “Ever tried... Ever failed... No matter... [Please] Try again... [Please] Fail again... [Please] Fail...
Jan 20, 20231 min read
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The Zen of Not Trying to Text Our Way through Difficult Conversations that are Better Had in Person
Not sure who needs to hear this today... Here we go! In my direct experience, trying to navigate emotional and/or psychologically charged...
Jan 18, 20232 min read
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There really is no time to waste
無浅薄生 | Mu Senpaku-Sei Not being frivolous, shallow, flippant, insincere, superficial, senseless, or doing this that are meaningless with...
Jan 18, 20231 min read
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To those who have felt or feel defeated… disappointed… a failure… or at a loss… may this help you
--We Are None of Us Alone
Jan 16, 20231 min read
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The Journey | Mary Oliver
One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began, though the voices around you kept shouting their bad advice -- though the whole...
Jan 16, 20231 min read
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Lame Notions of Zen
Zazen is not baking a cookie for ourselves, expecting a tasty treat after we pull it from the oven and let it cool down. That kind of...
Jan 15, 20231 min read
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Who Is It
Look... Look... Look... Attention! Attention! Attention! Watch! Be alert! Notice... The shadow... the aspect… who walks... always next to...
Jan 14, 20231 min read
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Meeting our Scars and Wounds with Compassion
This is the beginning of a conversation about the scars and wounds we acquire in the process of being human. --Dignity and Grace
Jan 13, 20231 min read
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The Ocean and the Innumerable Waves on the Surface Share the Same Karma
The gift of Zazen is that by stilling our body... our attention making conscious contact with Reality rather than thinking... we have the...
Jan 12, 20231 min read
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Mushotoku | Being without the suffering of our unrealistic expectations
What are our expectations, moment to moment? Are they realistic or unrealistic, given who and what we're dealing with? How do I tend to...
Jan 10, 20232 min read
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Healing General Trauma and Unhealthy Conditioning
Rather than trying to heal generational trauma and unhealthy conditioning by myself, under the fiction that I had to be “Strong,” or I...
Jan 9, 20231 min read
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Pathless Path
What is the nature of Zen? Realizing there's no route to travel to what and where we already are... Buddha! The Universal Identity of...
Jan 9, 20231 min read
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Time is A Fire that Burns as the Body of Our Life
Snatching defeat from the hands of victory, more than a few squander This profound opportunity. Those caught in the Dreamtime of...
Jan 8, 20231 min read
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